The issue of men asking ladies out has always been in practice since the very beginning;
men often find means of making women fall for them by coming up with sweet lines or
by doing something to impress them. We would also not overrule the fact that some
women could be intimidating and could throw some of the men off-balance.
1. When they set out to impress the women:
Most guys do all they can to make the women see them in a different light by being
over-zealous in their dressing. Some women would never say yes to men who
approach them with bling-bling and chains; the only time they could be swayed is
when the chains on them are made of pure gold and not the iron they always seem
to have around them.
As a matter of fact, how many men do we see in the corporate
world dressed like that? These could be funny to the women and could make them
lash out on the men.
2. Telling lies when the women know better:
Another way men embarrass themselves in front of women is by lying. Why do they
need to lie in the first place? A woman that would like you will do irrespective of
the things you say, but when men overdo it, it becomes a turn off. Some women
go out of their ways to let the men realize they know what is going on and
embarrass them in the process.
3. Stuttering Some men approach women with rehearsed lines they picked up from
their friends who have skills in doing things like that. Now we know what could
happen when you are on stage for a play, you could end up missing your lines or
forgetting them completely. When this happens, most of the guys do not know
where to start from as they might have said the wrong thing from their crammed lines.
If the women they are trying to ask outfall within the category of the intelligent
ones who are usually tough, they may make it harder for them and embarrass them the more.